I started in engineering for my parents and switched after a miserable year. I lost time and money, but I learned that prestige does not help if you hate the day-to-day work. It is better to choose with honesty early.
Is it a mistake to choose a major only because your parents want it?
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My parents want me to study medicine, engineering or business because they think those are safe. I respect them, but I’m not sure it fits me.
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Students and graduates discuss family pressure around major choice and how to balance respect, practicality and personal fit.
Answers & Discussion
Bring them a practical plan for the major you prefer. Parents panic when they hear a major and imagine unemployment. Show job paths, internships, salaries, graduate options and costs. A serious plan changes the conversation.
It can become a mistake if you ignore your own strengths completely. Parents often mean well and think they are protecting you, but you are the one who has to study and work in that field. Try to discuss outcomes and alternatives, not only feelings.
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